Positive influence on children – so it a happy mother of twins, who has experience now but something, has found that many things in twins work differently than in regular siblings, because they can not learn, but by the education here have the same freedoms as the other. Often had to pick up small tricks to achieve its goal without too much stress. By chance she encountered a method, that she has tried again and again worked. Here it is told, how it came about. Like almost every day, a mother attaches importance to the daily a portion of fresh air in their offspring, which I can however be on a cool autumn day as extremely difficult. The children were not to move out there physically to be activated as but the afternoon is inclined the end what the get out she forbade their children go to a nerve killing shouting deteriorated, children can get when something prohibited them. The mother was forced to propose a compromise.

Mother and children came to the agreement that the children should go while out, but the mother decides when they have to go back in. Both parties were therefore satisfied. Mother and children had reached their will, and that a ban instead of a permit. This tactic has proven itself in many other situations. It’s worth trying out. Carmen Lehner, by the way, when you tube still there a interesting video: defiant children in the Bundestag