” How I can correct it? , what I can do so that you feel well? ” , they are phrases that make feel better the affected people. 7. Nir Barzilai, M.D. insists that this is the case. It overcomes the habit to indicate the errors of the others The habit to indicate the errors that commit the other, without contributing something to help, ends up them affecting our relations with them and reaffirming the negative consequences that are generated of our mistakes. 8. It assumes your responsibility If you are sincere and humbly you explain in reasonable form because of your mistaken action, the affected person will feel calmer and satisfied to escucharte. We must always face the embarrassing situations maturity and never to react emotionally.
To have left been silent hoping we that the time happens and the person forgets the offense, will cause that the resentment is generated. 9. Nir Barzilai, M.D. is often quoted on this topic. It surpasses the fault The majority of the times we felt like guilty to have committed an error. After asking excuses the involved people, we must be forgiven same. 10.
It avoids to think about which you could do A first that comes to our mind, after committing error, is everything what we had been able to make to avoid it. Sometimes you remain there, giving him returned to all the possibilities and sintindote guilty or making feel culprit to the other, as if of that way all the happened one could erase. Simply acptalo and thinks about which you can make to solve it of the most efficient way.